Sex Isn’t About Sex At All

If you’ve been watching the new popular Netflix show “House of Cards” you may have heard the saying that “Everything is about Sex, except Sex” the main character Francis goes on to say “Sex is about Power” although it’s an interesting point, that’s not exactly what I’m getting to.

Do you remember around college time, how easy it was to get hard? – especially once you got comfortable with a girl, the first few times you had sex was great, you were great. I had those days too, but then, after we had sex a few more times, things would change a bit, the drive would dribble of, sex wasn’t as great and I’d loose interest. Then I noticed in two of my long term relationships, the begging was passionate but then it would drift of, sex would become just a physical act, lacking passion.

Mentally I wanted to please my girlfriend at the time and I wanted to be as exited about it as I was in the beginning, but I just wasn’t, and if you’ve experienced this you know exactly what I’m talking about. It’s completely natural to loose excitement about sex in long term relationships and marriage, this is because Sex is a lot more than Sex, it’s mental.

You may have learned and realized this much earlier then I have, but at that point after my second longest 4 year relationship I realized that the excitement about sex and over all sexual drive had a huge impact on my sexual performance, and that excitement was completely separate from the act of just having sex, it was mental excitement.

What am I getting at here? – The lack of excitement over time is also one of the biggest reasons men are driven to cheat with the secretary, the coworker you take a business trip with, or even that single mom you met at your kids soccer practice – the idea of sleeping with her can seem exciting and this is what “sexual tension is” it builds up on both sides because the “relationship” even though just friendly is new and exciting, while the marriage gets routine and at times boring.

So how can you get that excitement back into your relationship? How can you get your sexual performance back up to the same level when the relationship was fresh and exciting? These are the exact same thoughts that ran through my mind when I found my self, once again loosing steam in the bedroom.

This is why I turned to male enhancement to get my younger, excited self back and after trying multiple products that didn’t work for me, I put my experience as a research to work and came up with the ASoX9 formula.

Sex can be just as exciting as it was at the beginning, although it is up to You to make this decision, and take the first step to improving Your performance. From my experience, I noticed when I would do certain new activities with my wife my own sexual excitement would increase.

Here are some steps that helped keep the excitement up in a relationship : 

Activity Based improvements:
– Try new activities together such as Biking, Golfing, Wine tasting, Going out to Movies
– Offer more compliments to her, tell her she looks beautiful, compliment her Witt
– Small surprise gifts, give her flowers occasionally, just because
– Trips, get a hotel a few hours away from where you live, explore new area
– Change scenery, hotel, sex in different parts of your house

Improve physical performance:
– By working out and improving your physical health
– By use of supplements that boost libido, sex drive, and erection (this really helped me)

Many of these activities will help to a degree, at least to drive up your libido, But the surest way that helped me get the passion back was improving my physical performance through ASoX9, after all when you’re able to perform well, get completely hard and ravage her, the excitement comes back, it did for me.

Since I developed and started taking ASoX9 my excitement came back, my sex drive was up, and my relationship improved. What’s more, the confidence in my attitude transferred from the bedroom to my work as well, I became more confident, assertive, the stress became just irrelevant, and all thanks to that feeling of knowing I was able to completely satisfy my wife, and I, my younger self, was back.

When I shared this story in confidence with two of my friends they wanted to try asox9 as well, and when they did they came back asking me for more and I decided to share the asox9 formula with other men that wanted to improve their bedroom performance. Now some time down the road, with many customers continually coming back I am happy to share the story and most importantly the asox9 formula with you, and others who are ready to rock their sex life.